The most important thing in Christianity is not prayer. According to the Bible, the best way to run the Christian life is not by being a prayer warrior or even a soul winner. It is not followership and submission, though these things are important and have their place. Remember, many have walked this path before—former evangelists, former committed believers who gave much and worked hard. Yet, many of them are now frustrated. The most important thing in Christian living is walking in love, because at the end of the day, if you gave and won souls, but did not walk in love, you achieved nothing.
The Bible says, "If I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing" (1 Corinthians 13:2 NASB). This tells us that love is much more important than faith. Let this be a reminder to strengthen your love life. At the end of the day, it doesn't matter how loyal you are, how many souls you win, or how much you give. Love is the foundation. The Bible tells us, "(Love) doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;" (1 Corinthians 13:5). There's something greater than loyalty, soulwinning, or giving: love is the highest path you can walk.
If you want to live above all the winds and troubles, where nothing shakes you, walk in love. Only love can settle your inner disputes. Walk in love, and you will go far. Many who were once great soul winners and faithful servants are now lost because they couldn't resolve their inner conflicts. The Bible says, "(Love) beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things" (1 Corinthians 13:7). Love can handle betrayal, offence, and pain. Strengthen your love life. Love your brothers and sisters. Love forgives. Love bears anything.
If you lack love, you are weak. A man who lacks love is spiritually bankrupt. He is the real frustrated, empty Christian. How can you think negatively toward your brothers, your pastors, or your leaders? How can you give your offerings, win souls, and yet carry such thoughts? That is not Christianity. Without love, your future is not secure, for 1 John 4:18 tells us, "There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love" Perfect your love life.
You grow in love through the Scriptures. Learn to see people as God's Word sees them, not by how they treat you or what they say. People are not what they seem to be; they are what the Word of God says they are. Walk in love. Learn to say, "I love you." Don't follow your feelings; follow God's Word in how you relate with others. In essence, walk in love.